AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN
Nowadays the days are becoming difficult for women of our society, I want to share my story that I have suffered the most after marriage. In my opinion a girl lived remarkable and peaceful life when she is at her parent's home. She lived a life with her own wishes, spent joyful moments with her siblings hence enjoyed each and every moment of life with happiness and great spirit because she knew her parents are always there for her. BUT life is not a bed of roses it is the way of thorns...….My parents are the love of my life .they are my everything ,THEY did each and every thing to fulfil my dreams from counselling to education and then of course the toughest one, my marraige.They gave me each and every thing but can't bought happiness .
It has been almost ten years of harsh and painful marriage I am facing many hard times of life especially regarding ruthful behavior of my life partner but life is going on and on. After this relationship I have lost my self-respect ,my confidence, my abilities of thinking ,decision making, gone through many unfortunate circumstances for even I think of them I start having goose bumps.
But thanks to ALMIGHTY ALLAH He blessed me with three adorable kids.They have became the main moto of my life.The initiative behind describing my own personal life is to pursue the moral for all the girls and women that they should be independent in there own decisions.
But,
According to the saying,"If there is a will, there is a way"the harsh days are over now, I succeed to face all the hardships and inevitable pain of my life.......I have started my career as a teacher and now am doing Masters by the grace of Allah.I am just focusing on my kids and career but in this instance husband's support is also with me.After a long struggle I managed to change him.Now I am back where I left myself somewhere........